Can’t get an erection with my girlfriend… But can when masturbating….?
Posted by admin | Under fixing erectile dysfunction Friday Jan 29, 2010I was dating a girl for 4 months and she’d go down on me every weekend, sex occasionally. and getting erect was never an issue. we broke up and I started dating a girl who wanted to wait half a year. I was instantly bored and started masturbating. Previously, I would masturbate 2-3 times a week. And now it’s become a daily routine, and sometimes more than once in the same day. 6 months went by and my new girlfriend tried getting me hard…. it didn’t work. we waited another 2 months, and she tried again (2 weeks ago), once again, didn’t work. The last time we tried was last night, she was completely naked and tried getting me hard by sucking on my penis. It still would not get me going. I’ve done a lot of research and it almost seems like the actual issue is that my excessive masturbation now for 8 months has lead me to a temporary dysfunction. I need it gone fast. I’m comiting to myself that I never will mastubate again, but if i go from today (Monday), to saturday (next time we hangout), will I be able to get hard once again. What is my issue? How do I fix it? I’m so confused with what’s going on. I don’t think I have actual erectile dysfunction, but I do believe the excessive masturbation has screwed up the way my hormones work and what turns me on. please help. i need this gone as soon as friggen possible.
It is now at this point anxiety. since yu have had a variety of faliure, you are now terrified of another flop and that is what will happen.
excessive masturbation is not the culprit, but how you feel about her and your images of yruself.
Let me make a tiny suggestion. Smoke a bit of pot before you have sex. It will take the edge off and relax you enough to have the sex
Sounds like performance anxiety. You’re trying too hard to get it right. You need to learn to relax & take things easy. Don’t rush. Work thru your stress. Stress can cause all kinds of problems. Sometimes, lifestyle changes can help a great deal. No smoking – no beer/ale – no booze – no drugs of ANY kind – these can all interrupt blood flow to the penis resulting in malfunction at the junction.
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First of all, just take it one step at a time. Before you get all paranoid about have an erectile dysfunction plainly just quit masturbating and just think of things that make you horny but DO NOT masturbate! me and my boyfriend used to have the same problem… and he masturbated WAY too much! :p
Good luck
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personal experience
It is now at this point anxiety. since yu have had a variety of faliure, you are now terrified of another flop and that is what will happen.
excessive masturbation is not the culprit, but how you feel about her and your images of yruself.
Let me make a tiny suggestion. Smoke a bit of pot before you have sex. It will take the edge off and relax you enough to have the sex
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A frequent cause of erectile dysfunction in younger males is an atypical masturbatory style, particularly masturbating in the prone (face down) position. This is a troublesome condition called Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome, or TMS. You can learn more about TMS and how to overcome it at HealthyStrokes.com.
Otherwise, it might just be that you’re doing it too often. Try abstaining from masturbating for 3-5 days before your next act of intercourse, and you might find it’s a lot different.
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http://www.healthystrokes.com