Can Pornography lead to Erectile Dysfunction, and other Quesitons about ED?
Posted by admin | Under fixing erectile dysfunction Monday Dec 21, 2009Over the last few years i have been having trouble getting an erection (probably 50-75%of the time) when having intercourse. Yet for some reason, it doesn’t seem to be a problem when i am Masturbating (maybe 5% of the time having trouble).
I am wondering if looking at porn since i was in puberty, and being in my early 20’s now, has caused problems with having actual sex. It sounds crazy, but is it possible that i am becomming less aroused by actual sex, and more aroused by Pornographic images?
Is this something that is common? Is it a mental or physcological problem and something that will just take time? If not, can it be fixed? I would prefer to not have to take pills because i feel I am too young to be taking Viagra and such.
Any other insights to ED would also help.
I also want to add, that since birth i have had trace amounts of blood in my urine. The doctors said its not a big deal, but could this be the problem?
Yes , it is common but it is a psychological problem not a physical one
it can create problems with intimacy, and you can start to desensitize yourself to intimacy and be more comfortable taking care of yourself. the images in porn are also so hard core compared to what your real life sex probably is like that it does not stimulate you like it should.
People usually do OK solo but when the porn addiction really kicks in the performance anxiety gets off the hook and the payoff of taking care of someone Else’s needs after so long of a time of just taking care of your own can really mess up your head
about blood in urine, if your nervous get a second opinion but trace amounts of blood are usually nothing to worry about..
A bit of Insight on this.. if you love and respect the person you are wanting to have sex with you may hate your thoughts. You have been programmed by porn to think wrong about what you are doing and why, it may just make you feel guilty and sleazy, do what you can to stop if any of this sounds like you.
Yes it is. Sometimes people become so trained by porn, that they have a difficult time getting aroused with out it. You NEED to stop porn right now, COLD TURKEY. If you can do this it will get back to normal but for not NO MORE PORN.
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Yes , it is common but it is a psychological problem not a physical one
it can create problems with intimacy, and you can start to desensitize yourself to intimacy and be more comfortable taking care of yourself. the images in porn are also so hard core compared to what your real life sex probably is like that it does not stimulate you like it should.
People usually do OK solo but when the porn addiction really kicks in the performance anxiety gets off the hook and the payoff of taking care of someone Else’s needs after so long of a time of just taking care of your own can really mess up your head
about blood in urine, if your nervous get a second opinion but trace amounts of blood are usually nothing to worry about..
A bit of Insight on this.. if you love and respect the person you are wanting to have sex with you may hate your thoughts. You have been programmed by porn to think wrong about what you are doing and why, it may just make you feel guilty and sleazy, do what you can to stop if any of this sounds like you.
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I am going to be watching this one….I don’t have an answer but I have the same problem…..except for the blood in the urine……
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!!! That sucks! Can’t have actual sex but only get aroused watching porn…geez. Well, I don’t look at porn, so I dunno what to tell ya. Maybe you could try to not look at porn as much? Or maybe think about the images as you have sex? I dunno, that might help…
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